tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post8509513196185467360..comments2023-10-31T08:10:33.726-04:00Comments on Be Your Own Lady: You're Doing It Right: Throwing Social Media Rules Out the Windowashliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14355427026784107874noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post-36331450388259158562018-12-03T10:19:28.148-05:002018-12-03T10:19:28.148-05:00At the point when writers are co-picked into admin... 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Thank you. I have been way weird about IG l...Dang. Thank you. I have been way weird about IG lately...feeling like I post too much...watching my follower numbers...for no reason at all but just to make me feel bad about myself. I needed this. Thank you!!!!!Becky Goerendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14297050793456171803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post-37819356427046884762014-08-08T12:13:04.682-04:002014-08-08T12:13:04.682-04:00I tried writing a thoughtful comment and then I ha...I tried writing a thoughtful comment and then I had to delete it cause it was ranting and raving.<br /><br />But yeah. Social media. Polarizing! But be your own you. And if you don't like "me" then peace out. I don't need a certain number of followers to justify my life, and I hope you (generic "you" not "you" Ashlie) don't either, because if I dont' like what you're doing, then I'm pretty quick to unfollow.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12061075972208752334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post-2750001763225994232014-08-08T10:56:36.981-04:002014-08-08T10:56:36.981-04:00I agree SO much about the release- putting it in t...I agree SO much about the release- putting it in the world and interacting with you and others is what gets me through on MANY days! We're hundreds of miles apart and still walking next to each other. I love how you can pinpoint EXACTLY what I'm talking about with examples in your news feed, and I love how much you love them all :) The internet truly is real life. I'm so glad you share with me on Facebook and here!ashliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14355427026784107874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post-43378690182193429552014-08-08T10:54:22.656-04:002014-08-08T10:54:22.656-04:00I'm so glad it resonated with you! It's a...I'm so glad it resonated with you! It's a REAL struggle, and Facebook is where I find it the hardest to figure out how I feel. I love connecting with my family and my friends and often find it interesting to see how other people are going about their lives, but it's also where I feel the most anger/offense. I recently had to hide a bunch of people (some of whom I love) from my news feed just to stop getting mad about differences of opinion or, in some cases, outright ignorance. Facebook is fertile ground for people to be hurtful. I also had to weed out some people who didn't need to be my "friends" anymore, because I couldn't handle it. It's tricky and weird, like most things that come from being a person in the world :) <br /><br />I completely feel you about letting it bother you- I was often HURTING from what I saw other people post before I went on my hiding spree. I hope you find some peace and trust your beautiful instinct! Thanks for a great comment.ashliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14355427026784107874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post-33712804504011188942014-08-08T10:50:11.571-04:002014-08-08T10:50:11.571-04:00Wise words, lady! Learning to love people of vario...Wise words, lady! Learning to love people of various styles online is very similar to doing it in real life... We are all unique with funky styles that make us happy! Lets enjoy the diversity! I personally rarely follow social "rules" for their own sake in real life... Why the heck worry about it online! I love pics of food, lots of kid pictures, and numerous life updates. I like to pray for people as their life challenges come across my feed. I like to learn from others and their interesting lives! I have friends who post relentless cute animal pictures, a friend who's world is collapsing every darn day and she feels like no one loves her despite the friends who immediately reassure her otherwise in their comments, and someone who is so stinking healthy and optimistic that sometimes I even want to gag... But I respect and love them all. The animal lover has a sweet heart, the Debbie Downer donates much of her time to advocating for abused animals, and the perfectly thankful person reminds me to look on the bright side when I'm tempted to grump through the day. And personally, by putting my daily cares and laughs out there, I find a kind of release... Like someone out there is walking this road alongside me, even if miles away via Internet connections. I've talked about it, so now I can move on. Then I read on down the newsfeed to see everyone else's daily thoughts, and gosh, I always learn something new or gain a diversified perspective! Therapy! Anyhow, love the post! Well said, lady!Dan and Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00030971945283271892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4664450243693286068.post-63621772639171062002014-08-08T10:01:57.079-04:002014-08-08T10:01:57.079-04:00Holy smokes, what an interesting post! I love how ...Holy smokes, what an interesting post! I love how you mention to try not to follow "rules" on social media sites. It seems like there ARE so many unspoken ( and loudly spoken ) rules that we are supposed to follow and I feel this way as a blogger as well!! I do find myself feeling unsure sometimes before I post something on instagram or my blog, I think sometimes I'm so worried about which category I'm placing myself in! Which is, ridiculous and a little bit childish. I hope that I can learn to "be my own lady" a little bit more! I think the one thing that I have trouble "judging" is Facebook. I do get really irritated because I feel like our culture has this thing about us where we feel so good about ourselves for just saying or posting a belief and it frustrates me. I have people on my Facebook who are constantly posting articles about WHY this is wrong and why that is wrong and they never stop to think of the negative implications it has. What I like about your essay here is that it is showing me that I need to rise about that and find a way to cut it out of my life. Sometimes I allow things to bother me so much and it really affects my heart! Not sure that this will be an easy fix for me, but thanks for bringing this to light for me!gillian clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13055568960515022533noreply@blogger.com